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  1. Such a blessed and encouraging post for anyone who using sex as just a means to get by life. Sex can be such a vulnerable subject to anyone who has gone through abuse .

    The Lord can heal every layers of pains, and I pray anyone reading this post will cry out to God, and seek counsel.

    • Melissa

      Thank you Diana! That is my prayer as well. Sex is such a vulnerable topic in general and often times gets used in ways and forms never intended by God. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your insight. God bless!

  2. I agree. We don’t talk nearly enough about God’s design for healthy sex within the context of marriage in our churches. And it’s a shame! Blessings to you as you share this tough topic for His glory!

    • Melissa

      It is sad to me that it is not discussed more. So many aspects of sex, in our culture and in Churches, are not God’s design. It’s leading to hurt within marriages and confusion for the younger generation. Thank you for stopping by and reading! God bless!

    • Melissa

      It is more complex than just a role in the hay! And unfortunately it’s not being discussed that way by our culture and the Christian church isn’t discussing the topic in the way it should. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your insights. God bless!

  3. Thank you for talking about this topic! Understanding how different men and women and their love languages helps me understand the topic of sex even more!

    • Melissa

      Men and women view sex differently and modern culture verses Christian faith view sex differently. And when you add in skewed views and past pain, the result is sex being engaged in completely different than how God designed. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  4. A lot of truth here. I too hate the term make-up sex! It implies that sex solves the initial problem which is not true – as you said it’s incomplete.
    Thanks for sharing.

    • Melissa

      Unfortunately far too many people believe make-up sex does just that. We need to take back the understanding of sex as God designed. Thank you for stopping by, Nylse! God bless!

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