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    • Melissa

      I’m so sorry to hear that your little sister went through this pain. I pray she received the help and support necessary. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your experience. God bless!

  1. Thank you for posting this. As someone who has struggled with self harm and has seen this in others, I think you approached it beautifully. Not over-reacting and taking time to get to the root of the issue from a Godly perspective is so important.

    • Melissa

      It is something that touches many people. My prayer is that this post can help support parents (and ultimately their children) in how to seek help and healing. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your experience. God bless!

    • Melissa

      Yes, this would absolutely work in that capacity as well! I’m glad you found the post beneficial. Thank you for stopping by and God bless!

  2. Thank you for giving us tips on how to deal with it. What is the statistics around self-harming? What percentage of kids are doing it?
    I remember a few girls doing it when I was in school but haven’t heard of any cases currently.

    • Melissa

      Unfortunately, each year, 1 in 5 females and 1 in 7 males engage in self injury. (I have more stats and sources in part one.) But the concern is that statistic may actually be higher as many individuals who self-harm don’t report it or get found out.

  3. Melissa, thank you for writing about this topic and sharing counsel for parents and other adults. This may sound like a strange question, but is overeating related to self harm? Just wondering that from my own personal experience.

    • Melissa

      Yes, these steps can be tailored to most any hard parenting situation. Staying calm and remaining emotionally neutral generally helps our children to feel safe and secure enough to express what they are experiencing. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

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