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  1. Becoming vulnerable with my husband used to be so hard. It takes trust, not just in my hubby but trust in Jesus as He walked us through bringing our marriage back together. It has been many years since then and the Lord has truly blessed our marriage. ❤

    • Melissa

      I’m so glad Jesus helped you and your husband to come back together. Our marriage relationship really is a window into how we interact with Jesus. Thank you for stopping by and sharing. God bless!

    • I agree Donna! These are such good tips in this article…wish my marriage would have begun with a healthy foundation! But, it didn’t, so know we work to repair the damage we’ve both done to each other! I still find it hard to be vulnerable in every.single.area. with my spouse!

      • Melissa

        It definitely takes time and healing after there have been wounds. I pray God helps guide you and your spouse! God bless!

  2. Such great advice. I like how you said to say, “Oh, I didn’t take it that way, I thought…” That is so important and to say it in a gentle and kind way. That is something I needed to be reminded of. As always, you have beautiful insight and wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing that with us. – Amy
    http://stylingrannymama.com/

    • Melissa

      Thank you Amy! I’m glad you found the post beneficial. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

    • Melissa

      It is important. I thought it was important to breakdown as we can be good at being vulnerable in some areas and then struggle in others. Thanks for stopping by Julie! God bless!

    • Melissa

      It does take work to be vulnerable and without that it is hard to be truly able to be intimate. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  3. This is great advice! I’ve only been married for a year and a half and already we are starting to learn the importance of being vulnerable in ALL areas. Some are easier than others for sure, but thank you for outlining how to create vulnerability and its value. I will definitely be implementing it in my life!

    • Melissa

      Thank you Emily! I’m glad that you found the article beneficial. Some areas will certainly be easier for each of you over others. Congratulations on your marriage and God bless!

  4. I think it can be hard because the more vulnerable you are, the more open you are to being hurt, but it can also be rewarding because as you are more vulnerable, you also make space for deeper intimacy. Thanks for all these tips! Even for somehow for whom vulnerability is a value, I found lots to take away here!

    • Melissa

      You’re right Leigh, greater vulnerability can lead to deeper intimacy. I’m glad you found the post beneficial. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your insights. God bless!

    • Melissa

      Yes! I think often vulnerability gets too narrow of a view and communication is the only aspect that gets addressed. There is so much more to strengthening the marriage. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  5. Sure, transparency is key in a marriage relationship. As you said, sometimes we assume that our spouses suppose to know how we feel but it is not always the case.
    Your are doing a good job, may God bless your work.

  6. Lowering my walls has always been difficult to do, but my husband has been so amazing at patiently and graciously letting me bring them down. Making sure that we are open to each other is so important and a must in marriage.

    • Melissa

      It can be such a difficult process. Especially if there has been a history of pain or rejection. I’m glad you have been able to bring this into your marriage. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your experience. God bless!

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