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    • Melissa

      So very true Andrea! He provides us strength in this world of judgment and comparisons. Thank you for stopping. God bless!

    • Melissa

      Yes, focusing on Jesus as opposed to ourselves is always beneficial for EVERY situation. 🙂 Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  1. Such a great topic and a great reminder! With all the social media, it is so easy to get caught up in the comparison game. Love this! Thank you for a great message to start the week with!

    • Melissa

      Thank you Pam! I’m glad you found it beneficial. Comparisons can be just so harmful to our identity and the path God has for us. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  2. Love this! What an important post. Reminds me of Philippians 4:6-8! When we choose to focus on what is true, and honorable and right and pure, and lovely and admirable, and excellent, and worthy of praise – with a spirit of thanksgiving – then we will be able to not be anxious, but to have the peace of God that passes all understanding!

    • Melissa

      Esther those are my favorite bible verses! I have it on a bracelet that I wear everyday! Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts and insights! God bless!

    • Melissa

      I’m glad you found it beneficial Sylvia! Yes, being a blogger can be such a struggle to not compare other people’s sites, products, success, followers, etc. Knowing your personal “why” is important. This is an area I continually pray and focus on. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  3. Unfortunately, I can relate to most of these comparison traps! And I was just talking with my husband about his comparison which is common to men, that of their job/how much money they make. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that our comparisons cause us to apply worth or value to ourselves, or lack thereof. It can be so hard to remember that in Christ, we are precious children of God and have value in Him alone. Thank you for these reminders and helps on how to end our comparison game!

    • Melissa

      I think if we’re being honest, most of us can relate to these comparison traps! It becomes much to easy to do if we are not proactively guarding ourselves from it. We actively need to remember our identity in Christ. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your experiences. God bless!

    • Melissa

      Social media really is such a hard thing for our children/teens to have to figure out how to navigate. I pray she comes to understand her worth in Jesus! God bless!

  4. I’ve been so encouraged by all of these Identity and Image posts, Melissa! Comparing is something I definitely struggle with! There’s always someone to compare ourselves to, but that’s so flawed! We shouldn’t try to measure up to another human’s standards! God’s measurement is the only one of value and worth! <3

    • Melissa

      Identity and image have definitely been on my heart lately. It’s an area that I have struggled with and I know so many other ladies have as well. My prayer is that these posts can encourage others to embrace their identity and worth in God. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. God bless!

  5. I’ve been realizing in the last week or so how much I’m comparing myself to others, whether that’s physically, or in my work, my blog, or whatever else. It’s so hard to overcome! I’ve been doing little things, like not looking at any social media, work, or blogging things over the weekend so I don’t spend as much time comparing. Still, I feel like I have a long way to go. So glad you give suggestions on how to overcome different kinds of comparisons. Super helpful!

    • Melissa

      I can get into these ruts as well. Focusing on my God’s truth and how He sees me is helpful and then acknowledging my own positive traits (while not always comfortable) is really beneficial, too. I’m glad you found the post helpful Ashleigh, thank you for stopping by! God bless!

  6. I’ve had to come to a place before God that I accept all the strengths and weaknesses He gave me, and I know I am accepted and loved. I want others to be all they can be, too.

    • Melissa

      That is such an awesome place to be Susan! Thank you for stopping by and sharing your experience. God bless!

  7. It’s so hard not to compare my real life with someone else’s social media highlight reel. But when I stop to think, I can remind myself that my value is because God made me and lives me, not what I do or how my home looks.

    • Melissa

      So true! I’m glad you are able to remind yourself of your value! You are a daughter of God! And that is always enough. God bless!

    • Melissa

      Thank you Julie! It’s important to be able to pinpoint where the source of the comparisons are coming from as they may require different ways to stop. Thank you for stopping by. God bless!

    • Melissa

      That is such a great thought to really wrap our head’s around. We each individually are His favorite. Only He is capable of that kind of love and adoration for each of us. Thank you for sharing this perspective, Alice! God bless!

    • Melissa

      So true Kristi! Focusing on Jesus is truly the answer to ALL of life’s problems! Thank you for stopping by and commenting. God bless!

  8. Rebecca Jones

    Look to Jesus. Hebrews 12:2, we all have different gifts whether large or small, seen or unseen, some may never realize until heaven the people they’ve helped.

    • Melissa

      So true Rebecca! I think so often we focus on certain types of gifts and forget that we are all different but equally delighted in by God. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your encouragement. God bless!

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